People are always blaming others for things that they themselves are responsible for. The person doing all the blaming may not see it that way and may feel like they are the one that's always being wronged. Lets step back and analyse this. There is the person who was hurt, and the person that allegedly did the hurting and seemingly doesn't care. The person who was hurt is usually the one who talks about whatever the situation was that caused them pain and paints the other person in a negative light. Now true enough, the alleged offending person may have actually done something worthy of being talked about, but the thing that needs to be dealt with is how did it get to that point. In any situation, a person should never be able to get the best of you. You should always be the person who is able to walk away with your head held high.
There is one thing that I know with absolute certainty. People will definitely try you. They will make you mad enough to fight sometimes. The thing that you have to understand is that people can only do to you what you allow them to. To put that in perspective, if you are fighting mad at someone, its because you gave them the power to do so. People can only go as far as you let them. If you shut them down early, they don't have a chance to get to the point of feeling like they have the upper hand over you. The thing that is forgotten in these situations is that while you are mad at the person for whatever situation that occurred and are telling the earth how angry you are, that person is living their life. They are not thinking about you in the least. Next time you get angry and you wanna simmer in your disapproval of that person, remember that last statement. Honestly, no one really cares about the situation but you. Be adult, and move on. Learn to stop putting yourself in situations that could give someone the feeling of superiority over you in the first place. Remember that people will let you down. If you want to vent, talk to GOD...
