At some point you have to make a decision as to what you want to do with your life, since life seems to keep kicking you in the crotch. Do you want to wallow in self-pity and hurt because some people that you thought you could trust hurt your feelings? Do you ball up into a fetal position and cry in the corner? Do you just give up all together? NO. At this point, you toughen up. Suck it up and move on with your life. The people that hurt your precious little feelings aren't thinking about you. Why are you worried about them? Why are you wallowing in self-pity and regret about what could have been? This is the time to realize that you have breath in your body, a reasonable portion of health and strength, and the will/determination to continue on. You can't let situations make you weak. Nothing that was worth having came easy. If life kicks you in the back, spits in your face and knocks you to your knees, wipe off your face and get up.
People seem to always have all the answers about your situation and what you should do with your life. You know what you should say to those people? Point blank, just shut up. They are NOT in your shoes, nor do they know whats going on in your life or what is best for your. Since when did they become God? Why is it that everyone else knows exactly what to do in your situation but can't seem to fix their own? Get out of my face! No one wants to hear your judgemental rants about foolishness. Sweep in front of your own front door.
As for sucking it up and moving on with your life, it IS as easy as it sounds, though hard to believe. Suck up you pain and despair and move on with whatever you need to do to be successful. Don't be discouraged by your current situation, it is temporary. Be positive. In life, you will find that plans often change...
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