It seems as though you are going through something that no one can relate to, something so horribly bad that it is unfixable. The truth is, that isn't true. In just about every situation, someone has been through it, or is going through it. What we fail to see is that there is always a bright side to every situation, no matter how bleak it may seem at the time. When it gets to the point when you feel that your life is a complete #fail and nothing or no one can help you, take a step back and examine your situation closely. Take stock in who you are confiding in. Look at the people you keep in your inner circle. Are they positive? Are they optimistic or are they putting their foot on your throat now that your down?
The other aspect to examine closely is just how much information are you sharing about yourself? Are you telling the earth the most intricate details about all your life's issues? Are you talking to the right people who will be supportive to you even if they can't help you out of your situation? Honestly, a lot of times we just plainly talk too much. Giving too much information to people who would otherwise have no place in your life gives them power and control over you.
When are you going to sit in the driver's seat and take the wheel in your life? No one or no thing should ever be the controller of your you, your present, or your future. Anyone or anything that powerful is definitely something bad in your life. If you can identify something that is in your life that seems to fit this description, remove it! These sorts of distractions can be very detrimental to having a healthy and positive outlook on life. The key here is to not tell the earth all of your business. You can talk about things, but tell the right people limited but detailed information. Be careful of who you confide in. Everyone isn't always who they claim to be...
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