Saturday, August 7, 2010

...so someone karate chopped you in your 11:59 moment



You say someone came along and karate chopped you in your 11:59PM moment? It happens. You were in a place where you really needed someone and you thought they were gonna actually come through, and they karate chopped you in the neck with disappointment and failure. OUCH! Now what? You only have a minute before your seemingly ultimate epic fail and descent into the unknown terrible abyss. People, this happens. Its not uncommon. People just don't come through sometimes.

Here's the lesson to learn from this. Stop depending on people so heavily. Look, if your in an 11:59PM situation and you can't fix it, at 12:00AM your not gonna die. The world is not going to end. It may feel that way, but trust me, you will be alright. Stop putting ALL of your trust in people and trust God. In addition to that, don't just look for divine intervention to swoop down and rescue you out of all your trials and tribulations. You have to go through some things and put in some work to reap rewards. It's not God's, or anyone elses fault if your needs aren't met when you need them to be. Its your own fault. Quite possibly, that thing you wanted or situation you needed handled wasn't meant to be, at least not at that time. Deal with it.

The sooner we stop placing the blame on others and accept the fact that no one is responsible for us but ourselves, the better we will be. Stop dragging past events into your present and move forward, get positive. So what someone didn't come through for you. Get over it. Its gonna happen again, just wait. If you think that people will never let you down, keep on living. Your poor little feelings will be crushed over and over again as people show you their true selves. When you stop depending on other people, you will realize that you can be your own inspiration. Sometimes, you have to be your own rock...

2 comments:

  1. This really helped me, I needed this. What I am going through at this moment... Really impressive. :0

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  2. love it jug...so are we going to stop depending on others and make our own moves?

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